We learn who our true friends are. True friends don't leave us when times are tough, they show up and are there to help...It builds character and we learn we can make it through some dark days. We learn to be grateful! We have learned who and what matters in our life and we have a greater appreciation for them. Surviving hardship gives us a bigger picture on what hardship really is. We will look back on the things we complain about and be thankful they are your only worries. After we have survived a difficult time, we have a deeper gratitude for our life.